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likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. with the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness.

just got back from ccm. it was a really intersting one cos of 2 factors. #1. i lost my voice while leading worship. #2. it was the annual general meeting. but this is besides the point. i am bothered about somethings.

its just so so so tiring to talk with some people. so tiring. so draining. to hear them rattle on, to pretend that you understand. (even though you should not be like this) but what would you do in such a situation? - your friend talks about something, and expects you to listen? to comment? to agree? to express your true opinion? sometimes its so hard to figure out what to do.. so i guess have to think wat He thinks i guess. and say what He would say.


i realize that i get turn off in 2 situations. 1. when people talk about themselve 24/7, regardless whether the opposite party wanna listen. 2. negative speech. excessive bitching about someone else, complaints, bad spirited speech. those belonging to category 2 i have a hard time dealing with. maybe its myself, if i am more selfless, and more patient and sympathetic. *shrugs* but guess one thing i learn is that i should not have such speech patterns.

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i usually dun feel this way. haha.. but i guess its like the link above. sometimes, there is a last straw to what one can take right?

learning to deal with these things! haha.. is prob good. cos if i really become a psychologist, i am going to hear LOADS OF NEGATIVE SPEECH WHICH HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME! so might as well learn to deal with it now.